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Ordinary Grace
A chance encounter on an ordinary walk, A man, a woman, a dog and a simple hello. Sometimes what makes a moment memorable isn't what happens, but what doesn't.
Brenda Righter
1 day ago3 min read
The Girl Who Stayed
A painting, a treasured friendship and more than thirty years of memories. The story of a barefoot shepherdess who found her place in my home and never left.
Brenda Righter
5 days ago4 min read
Monday, Monday
I've always liked Mondays. And one of the reasons might surprise you. Sometimes the most ordinary conveniences are worth a little extra appreciation.
Brenda Righter
6 days ago3 min read


You Don’t Know What You Don’t Know
A simple errand with Sam led to an unexpected discovery—and a reminder that sometimes, not knowing is part of the adventure.
Brenda Righter
Oct 73 min read


Don't Let the Hat Fool You
Somewhere along the way, yogurt put on an M&M hat and went to a party. And honestly? Good for her. Just don't let the hat fool you.
Brenda Righter
Sep 302 min read
Protecting Our Yeses
Four simple pillars—endurance, strength, balance and flexibility—and the everyday yeses they may help us protect.
Brenda Righter
Sep 254 min read
Rosie and Wrigley
When Rosie met Wrigley, she was smitten. Rosie is a Chihuahua mix—tiny, cheerful and quite certain that everyone she meets is already a friend. Wrigley was a Catahoula hound dog—big, steady and considerably more reserved. Rosie would stand on her back legs to give him kisses. Wrigley tolerated this. And that pretty much tells you what their friendship looked like. I met Rosie in 2018, when she was just two years old. I walked her five days a week, and before long, we became b
Brenda Righter
Sep 64 min read
Meet a Pearl - My Original Pearl
My mom, Sarah, believed she lived a charmed life. That might not seem remarkable until you know a little about the life she was describing. She grew up in a large family in rural Oklahoma in the 1940s. She married at 16 and became a mother at 17 when my sister, Delores, was born. Three years after that, I came along. By the time my parents' marriage ended, Mom was working the night shift at a local glass-making plant. The schedule was difficult. We were at school while she sl
Brenda Righter
Sep 55 min read
Marveling at the Little Things
As I was walking this morning, I had a surge of happiness. It never ceases to amaze me how wonderful our world—and life—can truly be. We are such smart and inventive people. I won’t talk about putting a man on the moon because that has almost become a cliché: Wow! We put a man on the moon! While I am certainly not negating the importance—or sheer ingenuity—of that feat, it is hardly the only accomplishment worth marveling at. Sometimes even the smaller things are the ones tha
Brenda Righter
Aug 222 min read
Who We Become
I met Elizabeth Packard this summer. Well, technically, Elizabeth died in 1897, so perhaps I should say I met her through the pages of The Woman They Couldn't Silence by Kate Moore. And apparently, Elizabeth has decided to stay with me. Elizabeth was a wife and mother living in Illinois in the 1800s. She was intelligent, deeply religious, opinionated and increasingly willing to question some of the beliefs held by her husband, a minister. Having her own opinions and convictio
Brenda Righter
Aug 144 min read
What the little girl knew
When I was a little girl, I was certain I would grow up to marry a pastor. I would learn to play the piano, of course. Because in my young mind, it all went together. Pastor's wife. Piano player. Church. I had it all figured out. Except, as it turns out, I didn't. I didn't marry a pastor. I never learned to play the piano, despite Mom's efforts. But I did marry a wonderful man, and we've built an amazing life together. And my journey with God has been far less tidy than the o
Brenda Righter
Aug 132 min read
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